Surrogacy

You may consider having a child through a surrogacy agreement and I can assist in this special and emotional journey. I can help you through the process of obtaining a parental order. A parental order will confirm your legal status as parents of your child conceived through surrogacy.

Surrogacy is the process by which a woman called a surrogate carries and delivers a baby for someone else, the intention being that after birth the child’s parental responsibility will be met by that other person.

In England surrogacy is regulated by the Surrogacy Arrangements Act 1985 and the Human Fertilisation Embryology Act 2008.

There are 2 types of surrogacy:

  • Traditional surrogacy: the surrogate uses her own egg and is the genetic mother of the child.
  • Gestational surrogacy: the egg comes from a donor.

Who can use a surrogacy process?

Surrogacy is opened to married couples, to civil partners since 2010, to “those in an enduring family relationship” and since 2019 to single parents (provided you have contributed with your own gametes). Whether you are in a same-sex relationship or a different-sex relationship, you can have a surrogacy agreement.

You shall be aware that commercial surrogacy is illegal in England. You cannot pay the surrogate more than her reasonable expenses and solicitors cannot take part in any negotiation in the surrogacy agreement. In England your surrogacy agreement is not legally binding.

I work with highly experienced counsel when difficulties arise in getting your parental order (for example if you separate with your partner before obtaining the parental order, if the surrogate does not confirm her consent to extinguish her parental rights, if you have paid more than the Court will see as reasonable expenses..). It is crucial to act quickly and I am very reactive to secure parental rights.

Conditions to obtain a parental order

  • One of you as the intended parents is domiciled (link to glossary?) in England. Surrogacy is illegal in France and legal in England. If you are French and your partner is domiciled in England, you can go through a surrogacy process and then have your parental order recognised in France.
  • You have paid no more than reasonable expenses to the surrogate
  • The child is living with you at the time of the application.
  • The surrogate (and her husband or partner) have given full and informed consent after the child is 6 weeks old.
  • You make your application for parental order before 6 months from the birth.

You need to have a parental order to remove the parental responsibility from the birth mother and to vest these rights. You need to be aware that until the parental order is made, the surrogate will be the legal parent of your child. If the surrogate is married or is in a civil partnership, her spouse or partner will also need to give consent for the parental order.

Court process

I can assist you in obtaining your parental order. You will need to file an application at court and inform (serve) the surrogate mother. The court will then ask CAFCASS ( link to glossary?) to make some checks. The CAFCASS officer will contact you and will contact the surrogate mother. The officer will check that your baby lives in your home and will verify that only reasonable expenses have been paid to the surrogate mother. There will be a direction appointment at court and the judge will ask you to file a statement explaining your background and your reasons to apply for a parental order. I can assist you with the drafting.

If the court is satisfied you meet all conditions and that all requirements are met, you will obtain a parental order. This will remove the parental rights of the surrogate mother, and you will then have full legal responsibility for your baby.

Recognition in France

If you are French and your partner is British, you may want to apply for a French passport for your baby and to have your order fully recognised in France. I can assist and file in front of the French court an application for exequatur. This is a long process that needs to be well prepared from the outset to avoid further delays. Generally the proceedings are one year long. You shall take legal advice as soon as you have obtained your parental order and I can represent you in France.

Reform of Surrogacy?

Because surrogacy is used more and more and because all parties involved must be protected and also because international surrogacy has so many different rules, the law commission prepared a report. A law reform and a draft legislation were published on 29 March 2023. This is a considerable piece of work you can consul here: https://lawcom.gov.uk/project/surrogacy/

The key proposals for the reform are:

  • Creation of a new pathway to legal parenthood for domestic arrangements which allow intended parents to be recognised as the legal parents from birth.
  • More clarity and transparency about the payments that can be made.
  • Creation of regulated bodies (Regulated Surrogacy Organisations) of non-profit organisatiosn that will look at the surrogacy arrangements and will provide support for all parties.
  • Possibility to make a parental order without the consent of the surrogate mother provided the welfare of the child requires that order to be made.
  • Creation of a new surrogacy register to allow access information about the child’s origins.

This is a reform and the government may choose other priorities before working on this draft legislation…

If you consider surrogacy and wants some information, if you have already an arrangement and needs help to obtain your parental order, feel free to contact me. I am here to assist you.

Slide

“I used Francoise Bonnaillie-valmorin services for a case involving both UK and French Laws and she was great. She always tried to find the best solution, she had some good advices and she was very human in her approach. I highly recommend her.”

Rafael Molinero

Slide

“Francoise has been my lawyer for over 8 years and she has always given excellent advice, counsel and support. By covering both UK and French family law makes, she is uniquely placed to guide anyone navigating such a landscape. I would recommend Françoise Bonnaillie-Valmorin without hesitation.”

Sarah Hammond

Slide

“Francoise has been helping me in a very difficult time in my life. As professional and knowledgeable as she is, she’s also very human and really cares about her clients. I felt supported in all ways possible thanks to her. Even after a few years I called her back as I needed something and she immediately responded and helped me again. So if you are reading this : think no more, Francoise is the best.”

JB

Slide

“Françoise Bonnaillie-Valmorin has been my solicitor for over 11 years. I choose her because she was qualified in both UK and French family law.
She is a reliable, ethical, very professional and knowledgeable solicitor. She explained everything very clearly to me. She has always given me great advice, counsel and support and helped me very much through my divorce proceedings.

Therefore I highly recommend Françoise Bonnaillie-Valmorin without hesitation.”

Natacha EMILE

Slide

“Françoise Bonnaillie-Valmorin is an excellent family lawyer with outstanding interpersonal skills. Knowledgeable, dependable and responsive when it comes to the law, but also sympathetic, supportive and a real team player. French speaking. Positive approach and sense of humour to defuse tension. Highly recommended.”

Jules Dagonet

previous arrow
next arrow
Slide

“I used Francoise Bonnaillie-valmorin services for a case involving both UK and French Laws and she was great. She always tried to find the best solution, she had some good advices and she was very human in her approach. I highly recommend her.”

Rafael Molinero

Slide

“Francoise has been my lawyer for over 8 years and she has always given excellent advice, counsel and support. By covering both UK and French family law makes, she is uniquely placed to guide anyone navigating such a landscape. I would recommend Françoise Bonnaillie-Valmorin without hesitation.”

Sarah Hammond

Slide

“Francoise has been helping me in a very difficult time in my life. As professional and knowledgeable as she is, she’s also very human and really cares about her clients. I felt supported in all ways possible thanks to her. Even after a few years I called her back as I needed something and she immediately responded and helped me again. So if you are reading this : think no more, Francoise is the best.”

JB

Slide

“Françoise Bonnaillie-Valmorin has been my solicitor for over 11 years. I choose her because she was qualified in both UK and French family law.
She is a reliable, ethical, very professional and knowledgeable solicitor. She explained everything very clearly to me. She has always given me great advice, counsel and support and helped me very much through my divorce proceedings.

Therefore I highly recommend Françoise Bonnaillie-Valmorin without hesitation.”

Natacha EMILE

Slide

“Françoise Bonnaillie-Valmorin is an excellent family lawyer with outstanding interpersonal skills. Knowledgeable, dependable and responsive when it comes to the law, but also sympathetic, supportive and a real team player. French speaking. Positive approach and sense of humour to defuse tension. Highly recommended.”

Jules Dagonet

Other services I can help you with

Divorce in England

You will need an excellent support in this difficult time and I am here to help you.

Children Matters

If you have any issues relating to the care arrangements of your children, I am here to help.

Cohabitation- Partnership- French PACS

I can provide you with my expertise on issues relating to cohabitation, partnerships and French PACS.

Anglo-French matters

I provide specialist family law expertise in cross border issues being qualified and actively working in France and in England.

Pre and post nuptial agreements

If you have connections with a foreign country or if your partner has, you should consider having a marital agreement.